A client approached me with a pressing question: why haven’t her three-year relationship led to a marriage proposal? At 35, she shares her concerns and hopes for the future. Let’s delve into the world of symbols and try to unravel this intriguing mystery using the ancient Japanese Hanafuda divination.
Question: Why hasn’t this three-year relationship led to a marriage proposal?
- Past and Its Reasons:
Pinky – March (Cherry Blossom):
Analysis: The early stage of the relationship was vibrant and romantic, filled with intense emotions. However, this passionate phase may have been short-lived and not deep enough to ensure long-term stability.
Ring Finger – February (Plum Blossom):
Analysis: This period involved overcoming difficulties and showing resilience. Serious issues might have been resolved, leaving a lasting impact on the relationship. These challenges could have created ongoing tension.
- Present:
Middle Finger – August (Miskant and Full Moon):
Analysis: Currently, the relationship may be experiencing deep emotional reflections and hidden problems. There could be unresolved issues or emotional stress that needs to be addressed.
- Future:
Index Finger – December (Paulownia):
Analysis: The future holds positive prospects for growth and success. If current obstacles are overcome, there is a chance for improving the situation and moving the relationship to a new level.
Thumb – May (Iris and Bridge):
Analysis: This card suggests the potential for resolving conflicts and advancing the relationship. With enough effort, there is room for improvement and growth.
- Advice:
Sixth Card – July (Wild Boar and Clover):
Analysis: The advice is to show determination and persistence. You may need to take an active role and confidently discuss the future of the relationship to achieve desired changes.
- Outcome:
Seventh Card – July (Clover):
Analysis: A positive outcome and good fortune are possible. This card suggests that with patience and readiness for change, successful resolution of issues and achieving harmony can be achieved.
Energy Interpretation
- Masculine Energy (Yin): 3 cards (March, May, May)
- Feminine Energy (In): 5 cards (August, February, December, July, July)
Balance Analysis:
The spread shows a predominance of feminine energy (In), indicating that emotional and intuitive aspects are dominant in the relationship. The lack of masculine energy (Yin) might explain the absence of activity and decisiveness, which could be holding back the progression and proposal.
Conclusion
The relationship hasn’t led to marriage due to the dominance of emotional and intuitive energy. There is a need for more activity and decisiveness to move the relationship forward. Increasing masculine energy in actions and discussions will help address current issues and advance to the next level.
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